Expectations
Two teams compete in the Olympics.
Both win the Bronze.
One country is elated and the other disappointed.
So goes the power and toxicity of expectations.
When considering the word expectations, it’s almost impossible to imagine it without some qualifier.
High, low, exceeding, diminished, raised, wildest, lowered, defying, beating, surpassing, failing, great, outsized, living up to, playing down and on and on.
So unhealthy is our relationship with this word that when we say that something has “met our expectations,” we shrug our shoulders, suggesting some level of mild disappointment.…