Marshmallows & Bastards
When we look at successful adults, we often see a consistent set of character traits that were ingrained when they were children. For example:
- Seminal moments, called flashbulb memories, established important lessons early in life.
- Willpower developed when instant gratification was delayed for a long-term goal.
- Resilience taught by how to get back up after failure.
- Success momentum created by success breeding confidence and more success.